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To the Editor:
There was a time that the neighborhood families looked out for each other. Stay-at-home moms watched the children of the moms who worked away. Dads who were home around the time that schools adjourned walked to school to be able to spend time with their children and the children of the neighborhood as they walked home together. Everyone watched for activity that was not natural on the block; everyone’s home was special and not to be messed with.
This was a time when children were taught to respect adults. A time that adults were concerned about the care and nurture of their families as well as their neighbors, and had a home with a sign posted on the porch, “Block Mother.” Any child who felt endangered went there and knew they were safe.
Moms took turns walking their children and the neighborhood children to school. Children under the watchful eye of an adult felt cared for. Not only did the children benefit from the exercise, the parents did too. Mothers, toddlers in strollers, preschool children held hands with older siblings and bonded. In large groups several moms walked the children and struck up friendships. Information from the schools was shared so that everyone was aware.
Of course, this was a time that responsibility for one’s actions was taught. Respect for others, their property and their beliefs were a normal process we learned along with higher math, social studies and how to share. Respect and responsibility can only be taught by example. Concerned about your child’s safety? Put together a neighborhood watch group. Set up a safe house. Be a walker. Start where you are at. Be an example of healthy living. Bond with your children, their friends and the friends’ parents, so that your neighborhood becomes the foundation of sound, healthy lives. Income or lack thereof has nothing to do with what makes up a good neighborhood.
The unhealthy, unproductive living for “I/me/my” has brought many to the place where they are an alien to their families.
What we see happening in our world today is just the beginning; the lack of resources and shortages will expand. Do not continue to expect the city, state or federal government to meet all your needs and wants. Make what you have work not only for you but for others as well.
We really are our brothers’ keepers.
D. M. Dickinson
McLoud